DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a full-time, unpaid caregiver for my husband. My days are spent managing his doctor’s appointments and medications, driving him, and making sure he is safe, fed and clean. On her occasional visits, his daughter has nothing but criticism for me. What is the appropriate response?

When you return, you should thank your stepdaughter for coming, and ask when you might expect her again. You might suggest some times that would be convenient for you to be reliev

My days are spent managing his doctor’s appointments and medications, driving him, and making sure he is safe, fed and clean.

In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to someone who doesn't see eye-to-eye with their stepdaughter.